Sometimes, God's will goes against everything we believe is the norm. The standard we have set for ourselves, the goals we have set to achieve... Sometimes, God stops you from going in a direction you thought was right.
It's hard and if your foundation isn't rooted in Christ, it's easy to fall away or to fall into distraction...all In pursuit of your own goals.
What I'm trying to say is, even if God's will does not make sense, we must come to a place of obedience and submission to His authority. To accept all that He has put across.