CHRIST AND CHRISTIANITY BRINGS RELEVANCE.

It's simply absurd to see "Christians" upon accepting salvation/repentance becoming almost outcast in their families:
-They see every other as repulsive .l
-They make almost no financial commitment to the family.
- The Young ones care less about their parents.
-Most loose ability to pay their wards school fees, let alone house Rent etc.
-They disregard family meetings, seeing it as a canal distraction.
-Physically, they look horrible telling you it's all about the soul/spirit
-Their businesses crumble because they claim
being called.
-Most times all the help they render to siblings and friends fizzles away because they don't believe in financial prosperity any more, Christianity becomes synonymous with hardship now.
-Etc.

Realistically, any repentance that makes you less relevant, less resourceful, pauperized , less attractive, less beneficial to the family, less valuable/important, and puts you at enmity with others should be EVALUATED CAREFULLY FOR AUTHENTICITY.
Jesus is love and unity
Jesus adds value
Jesus adds relevance
Jesus opens doors of success
Jesus makes men faithful, honest, industrious, productive and trustworthy.
Jesus gives men advantage by revealing secrets of life

No human can despise these virtues, to repent is to be sought after.