You need to understand that man is a spirit being, and he's fully controled by a spirit being also for two cannot agree in a matter until they become one. For man to be able to be controlled by the spirit he needs to align his own body soul and spirit to God so that he can be used. Many people don't understand this and that's why they go on and on in circles wondering all in life seeking for satisfaction without knowing these things; is like a man walking to and fro the wilderness for 40 years and still not be able to find the land flowing milk and honey. It's all in God.