Vance Havner writing on “Grief” as he missed his wife Sara noted, “‘Are you awake, Dear?’ Does she know that I call? Does she know how it is with me these days? But you say she might worry about me if she did. No, she sees from God’s side, and if we could see as God sees, there would be no grief. She knows how everything really is, not just how it seems to be. Nothing distresses her now.”