From; Brenda Walsh Ministries
Okay To Be Angry
God created man to be social beings with a wide range of emotions, including joy, sadness, disappointment, excitement, and love. But there is one emotion that, although God created, needs to be carefully controlled, and that is . . . anger. If left unchecked, anger can easily turn into the sins of bitterness, jealousy, and hatred. There are times when it’s appropriate and understandable to get angry, such as hearing a news report of someone intentionally hurting a child, seeing or experiencing racism, or being wrongly accused of a crime would ignite anger in most people. Even God gets angry about injustice and evil. It’s quite normal, and yes, even “okay” to get angry when the situation warrants it, but that anger must be closely monitored and reined in before it becomes a deadly sin. Anger can quickly escalate to a point where relationships are destroyed, and that includes your relationship with God. It’s impossible to be loving and kind to others when you’re angry, so it’s important to make peace with whatever has ignited the flame inside you. The Bible even gives advice on how long you should hold on to anger. Ephesians 4:26-27 says, “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.“ Depending on the situation, talk it out with whoever you had a disagreement with and make things right. Colossians 4:6 tells us, “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer each person.” Talking it out may not always be possible or the best plan of action, so consult with Jesus first and follow His Holy Spirit's guidance. It may be that God just wants you to release all the anger so He can fill you with His sweet peace of forgiveness. Sometimes the only closure you’ll get is knowing that you tried your best and God will do the rest. Release all the anger and allow God to fill your heart with His love for those who did you wrong. Choose to be “better,” not “bitter.” Holding on to anger will ultimately destroy you and separate you from your Best Friend, Jesus, and nothing is worth that! And an added bonus . . . you’ll be able to express those joyful emotions, smiling, laughing, and praising Jesus! Text: Proverbs 16:32, Proverbs 17:14, Psalm 37:8-9, Ecclesiastes 7:9