God can and will use you to do more than say I will will pray for you and then forget to do it, or to judge people from the outside or their words. Here is proof.
Matthew 3:13-17 NKJV Then Jesus came to Galilee to John at the Jordan to be baptized by him.
And John tried to prevent Him, saying, "I need to be baptized by You, and are You coming to me?"
But Jesus answered and said to him, "Permit it to be so now, for thus it is fitting for us to fulfill all righteousness." Then he allowed Him.
When He had been baptized, Jesus came up immediately from the water; and behold, the heaven were opened to Him, and He saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting upon Him.
and suddenly a voice came from heaven, saying, "This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased."