When a flashlight grows dim or quits working, you don't throw it away, you change the batteries. When a person messes up and finds themselves in a dark place, do you cast them aside? Of course not! You help them change their batteries. Some need AA: Attention and Affection. Some need AAA: Attention, Affection, and Acceptance. Some need C: Compassion. Some need D: Direction. And if they still don't seem to shine, simply sit with them quietly and share your light.