God said, "It is not good for man to be alone!" He brought me my wife to be a help meet. The Lord woke me one night and said, "You asked Me for help and I have given you a 'helper' and a 'comforter' I said, " Thank You Lord for the Holy Spirit." He said to me, "Turn and behold your helper and comforter." I turned and looked at my wifey sleeping and He said,"Yes, that's her.!" I then realized that she is in God and when we are in Him we will find the enabling grace that has been with us all the time!!!