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1.Healing is separate from other's repentance or lack thereof.

2.Your ability to heal cannot be conditional on them wanting forgiveness but only on your willingness to give it.

3.Healing has to be separate from any of this being fair.

4.Healing cannot be conditional on the other person receiving adequate consequences for their disobedience but only on your obedience to trust God's justice whether you see it or not.

5.Healing is a choice.

6. Healing may take time... and forgiveness is a good step in the right direction.