The difference between the two shapes your life in distinct ways: 1. The Blessings: These are the people who bring joy, love and unwavering support. They stay by your side through chapters of your life and teach you how to give and receive love effortlessly. 2. The Lessons: These are the people who challenge you, test your boundaries, or may even disappoint you. Though painful at times, they teach you resilience, forgiveness and exactly what you need (or don't need) in your life moving forward.