In the interview room, we lean forward, lock eyes, and use a firm tone to get to the truth. That intensity is useful with a suspect, but it feels unsafe (or even abusive) to a spouse. https://www.thethinbluelife.com/articles/marriage-as-a-cop/your-tone-is-louder-than-your-sidearm-how-cop-nonverbals-are-sabotaging-your-marriage/ #lawenforcement #lawenforcementsupporters #police #propolice #prolawenforcement #supportthepolice #backtheblue #thinbluelife #thethinbluelife #thinblueline