A lady ๐พโhad dinner with two ๐ปโ๐ผโdistinguished British gentlemen.Both were former prime ministers of Great Britain, William Gladstone๐ปโ and Benjamin Disraeli๐ผโ.When she๐พโ was asked her impression of them she said "when I left the dining room after sitting next to Mr.Gladstone,I thought he ๐ปโwas the cleverest man in England.But after sitting next to Mr.Disraeli ๐ผโI thought I was the cleverest woman in England."Between the two people ๐ผโ๐ปโmentioned above which one would you like to be close to?A lot of people don't realize that genuinely showing interest in other people's๐ผโ๐ผ๐ฝโ๐ฝโ๐พโ welfare endears them to you.John Maxwell said "charisma, plainly stated is the ability to draw people๐ฝโ๐พโ to you".You draw people to you by being genuinely interested in their progress.Sometimes you talk to some people๐ปโ๐ผโ๐ผ and all they do is talk about themselves.Zig Ziglar said"help as many people as you can to achieve their dreams and they will help you achieve yours".Do you want a good friend?Then be a good friend first .Of course, you can show genuine interest in helping others and be paid back with evil.Jesus ๐ผchose the disciples ๐ผโ๐พโ๐ฝโand one of them was evil.Yet He hasn't stopped loving, caring and being genuinely interested in the welfare of humanity.Lisa Larter coined the acronym S.W.I.I.F.T to mean "See What's In It For THEM". Anything you do, always see how it helps humanity ๐ผโ๐ผโand they will follow you to fulfill your purpose.Jesus said "if anyone desires to be first , let him be the last and the SERVANT of all"(Mark 9:35). Genuinely show interest in other people's progress; which will draw them to you.That is Charisma.Have a lovely day .
A lady ๐ฉ๐พโ๐ฆณhad dinner with two ๐จ๐ปโ๐ฆฐ๐จ๐ผโ๐ฆณdistinguished British gentlemen.Both were former prime ministers of Great Britain, William Gladstone๐จ๐ปโ๐ฆฐ and Benjamin Disraeli๐จ๐ผโ๐ฆณ.When she๐ฉ๐พโ๐ฆณ was asked her impression of them she said "when I left the dining room after sitting next to Mr.Gladstone,I thought ๐ค๐ญ he ๐จ๐ปโ๐ฆฐwas the cleverest man in England.But after sitting next to Mr.Disraeli ๐จ๐ผโ๐ฆณI thought ๐ค๐ญ I was the cleverest woman ๐ in England."Between the two people ๐จ๐ผโ๐ฆณ๐จ๐ปโ๐ฆฐmentioned above which one would you like to be close to?A lot of people don't realize that genuinely showing interest in other people's๐ณ๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฉ๐ผ๐ง๐ฝโ๐ฆณ๐จ๐ฝโ๐ฆฒ๐ณ๐พโโ๏ธ welfare endears them to you.John Maxwell said "charisma, plainly stated is the ability to draw people๐จ๐ฝโ๐ฆฒ๐ณ๐พโโ๏ธ to you".You draw people to you by being genuinely interested in their progress.Sometimes you talk ๐ฆ๐ฃ๏ธ to some people๐จ๐ปโ๐ฆฐ๐จ๐ผโ๐ฆณ๐ฉ๐ผ and all they do is talk about themselves.Zig Ziglar said"help as many peopleโบ๏ธ๐๐
as you can to achieve their dreams and they will help you achieve yours".Do you want a good friend?Then be a good friend first ๐ฅ๐.Of course, you can show genuine interest in helping others and be paid back with evil.Jesus ๐๐ผchose the disciples ๐ณ๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ณ๐พโโ๏ธ๐จ๐ฝโ๐ฆฒand one of them was evil.Yet He hasn't stopped loving, caring and being genuinely interested in the welfare of humanity.Lisa Larter coined the acronym S.W.I.I.F.T to mean "See What's In It For THEM". Anything you do, always see how it helps humanity ๐จ๐ผโ๐ฆณ๐ณ๐ผโโ๏ธand they will follow you to fulfill your purpose.Jesus said "if anyone desires to be first ๐ฅ, let him be the last and the SERVANT of all"(Mark 9:35). Genuinely show interest in other people's progress; which will draw them to you.That is Charisma.Have a lovely day ๐โค๏ธ๐.