Words of Affirmation
Focus: The Power of the Spoken Word
Does your child light up when you praise them? Do they constantly ask, "Do you like my drawing?"
· The Language: For these children, hearing "I love you," "I’m proud of you," and "You did a great job" is fuel for their soul. Insults or harsh criticism cut them deeply.
· Today’s Action: Catch your child doing something good and verbally praise it. Be specific. Instead of "Good job," say, "I really appreciate how patiently you waited for your turn." Leave a sticky note on their mirror or in their lunchbox with a loving message.
· Parenting Tip: If your child is constantly seeking verbal approval, this is likely their primary language.
Focus: The Power of the Spoken Word
Does your child light up when you praise them? Do they constantly ask, "Do you like my drawing?"
· The Language: For these children, hearing "I love you," "I’m proud of you," and "You did a great job" is fuel for their soul. Insults or harsh criticism cut them deeply.
· Today’s Action: Catch your child doing something good and verbally praise it. Be specific. Instead of "Good job," say, "I really appreciate how patiently you waited for your turn." Leave a sticky note on their mirror or in their lunchbox with a loving message.
· Parenting Tip: If your child is constantly seeking verbal approval, this is likely their primary language.
Words of Affirmation
Focus: The Power of the Spoken Word
Does your child light up when you praise them? Do they constantly ask, "Do you like my drawing?"
· The Language: For these children, hearing "I love you," "I’m proud of you," and "You did a great job" is fuel for their soul. Insults or harsh criticism cut them deeply.
· Today’s Action: Catch your child doing something good and verbally praise it. Be specific. Instead of "Good job," say, "I really appreciate how patiently you waited for your turn." Leave a sticky note on their mirror or in their lunchbox with a loving message.
· Parenting Tip: If your child is constantly seeking verbal approval, this is likely their primary language.