It's crazy how masculinity is considered taboo today but is necessary to produce good strong men who can and will protect their family and be a leader and ensure stability in all aspects of the household or good caring women who not only know how to look for a good man set by the example of the father but also know how to nurture and bring peace to the household set by the example of the mother. That's why men and women in a family have their roles to play. The divorce rate is sky high because you have both men and women trying to lead. Reasearch and studies show that, that doesn't work. The man(father) leads, disciplines and protects while the woman(mother) nurtures, teaches and brings peace. If both try to lead, discipline and protect then it falls apart which creates discourse and tension which leads to divorce. The femininity of men will be the downfall of good fruitful families. Also without God in the home it will all fall apart anyway, serving God as a family should be the #1 priority in a household.