This will not make sense to your natural mind.
In order for the Father to fix what’s going on in your life, He must fix your heart first, so there will be nothing left in you to hinder what He needs to do.
Desire, surrender and obedience is your starting point. Heart change will begin as go deeper into that place of intimacy with the Father.
Once in that place, you will never be satisfied with [anything] apart from your relationship with Him.