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💍 MARRIAGE IS THE WEDDING OF TWO PURPOSES, NOT JUST TWO PEOPLE Many people walk to the altar thinking marriage is the joining of bodies, emotions, and maybe even bank accounts. But marriage is far deeper than that. Marriage is not just the wedding of two people — it is the wedding of two purposes. 🔍 Love Without Direction Becomes Frustration When two lives come together without direction, without vision, without a sense of assignment, what exactly are they joining? The Bible says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish” (Proverbs 29:18). Love may bring two people together, but vision is what keeps them moving forward together. Without purpose, couples don’t just grow tired, they grow apart. 🧭 Purpose Gives Marriage Structure and Stability Think of marriage like a journey. If two people enter the same vehicle but are heading to different destinations, conflict is inevitable — not because they hate each other, but because they are not aligned. Scripture says, “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Agreement here is not just about feelings, but about direction, values, and calling. 🏗️ Purpose Carries What Romance Cannot Love alone cannot carry what purpose was designed to sustain. People may be attracted to each other. Attraction may grow into strong connection, but to build something strong, purpose must be found and incorporated into the relationship. Purpose is always at the foundation of a strong marriage. When challenges come — finances, children, pressure, seasons of dryness — it is shared purpose that reminds a couple, “We are here for something bigger than ourselves.” That is why purpose does not just enhance marriage — purpose defines marriage. ✅ Before You Say “I Do” Before you say “I do,” be sure you know where you are going, and be sure you are marrying someone who is willing to go in a direction that aligns with your path. This is because marriage works best when two destinies decide to walk as one. PurposeDrivenMarriage #MarriageWisdom #RelationshipClarity #MarryWithVision #KingdomMarriage #IntentionalRelationships #MarriagePreparation #HealthyRelationships #BiblicalMarriage #ChooseWisely

WHY PURPOSE MUST BE INVESTIGATED BEFORE MARRIAGE One of the greatest mistakes people make before marriage is asking shallow questions and accepting convenient answers. Love alone is not enough to sustain a life relationship. Before entering marriage, honest questions must be asked, and they must be asked sincerely. Questions like: • What is her purpose? • Where is this man going with his life? These are not romantic questions. They are survival questions. Purpose cannot be proven by words alone. A verbal answer is not enough. Purpose must be confirmed, investigated, and validated. You must see consistent evidence that a person is rooted in a clear life direction, not just inspired by a temporary emotion or momentary ambition. Trusting someone with your life requires more than belief; it requires conviction. If you are not convinced, you should not be committed. If you do not understand the path a person is walking, you should not begin the journey with them. Never rush into marriage without clarity. If you do not know where someone is going, do not follow them. Purpose must be known before the relationship is consummated #PurposeDrivenMarriage #MarriageWisdom #RelationshipClarity #MarryWithVision #KingdomMarriage #IntentionalRelationships #MarriagePreparation #HealthyRelationships #BiblicalMarriage #ChooseWisely

Don’t Be a Monster to Your Spouse! Ephesians 5:25–33; Colossians 3:19; 1 Peter 3:7 Marriage is a divine institution established by God for love, companionship, and mutual support. However, many homes have turned into battlefields instead of havens of peace. Some husbands or wives have become “monsters” to their spouses — causing pain, fear, and sorrow rather than joy, comfort, and peace. When you mistreat, abuse, neglect, or oppress your spouse, you act contrary to God’s design for marriage. God never ordained marriage to be a prison but a partnership. - God’s Original Design for Marriage “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” — Genesis 2:18 Marriage was designed for companionship, not competition; for love, not torment; for help, not hurt. A monster spouse destroys what God intended to build. A loving spouse reflects Christ’s love for the Church. - When a Spouse Becomes a Monster You become a monster to your spouse when you: * Abuse them verbally, physically, emotionally, or financially (Colossians 3:19). * Neglect their needs and feelings (1 Corinthians 7:3–5). * Dominate or control them instead of leading in love (Ephesians 5:25). * Hold grudges and refuse forgiveness (Ephesians 4:32). * Mock or belittle their efforts and contributions (Proverbs 31:28–29). * Such behaviors wound deeply and destroy trust, intimacy, and joy. - The Example of Christ “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” — Ephesians 5:25 Jesus loved the Church sacrificially — He gave, forgave, and protected. A husband or wife who reflects Christ will build their home on kindness, patience, humility, and grace. Christ does not manipulate, insult, or abuse His bride — He nurtures and honors her. So should we. - How to Stop Being a Monster * Repent of every wrong attitude and seek forgiveness from God and your spouse (1 John 1:9). * Renew your mind through the Word of God (Romans 12:2). * Speak with love — let your words heal, not wound (Proverbs 15:1). * Be patient and understanding — learn your spouse’s needs and emotions (1 Peter 3:7). * Pray together — a couple that prays together stays together (Matthew 18:19). * Seek counsel when needed — godly counseling can heal broken hearts (Proverbs 11:14). - God’s Blessing on a Peaceful Home. “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!” — Psalm 133:1 Where there is love, peace, and understanding, God commands His blessing. A peaceful home becomes a reflection of heaven on earth. * Dear husband or wife, don’t be a monster to your spouse. You were not called to control or crush your partner but to love, build, and protect them. Let your home radiate the love of Christ. Remember, the way you treat your spouse reflects your true relationship with God. pray This Prayer - Lord, forgive me for every way I have hurt my spouse knowingly or unknowingly. - Help me to love my spouse as Christ loves the Church. - Deliver my home from the spirit of anger, pride, and bitterness. - Fill our home with peace, joy, and understanding. - Let Your love reign supreme in our marriage, in Jesus’ name. Pastor Abiodun Kadri Share and comment #ChristianMarriage #GodlyHome #LoveYourSpouse #MarriageWisdom #PeacefulHome #Ephesians5 #FamilyOfFaith #ChristInMarriage #Don’tBeAMonster #MarriageSermon

Hi Ladies, Being a good wife and mother isn’t something you declare or decide for yourself. It’s reflected in the lives you nurture, the love you pour out, and the legacy you protect daily. Your husband sees it in how you carry the home, not just with chores, but with peace, beauty, and trust. Your children may not have the words yet, but one day the adults they become will reveal the truth: your leadership mattered. The clean and sacred home, the tone you set, the discipline you uphold, and the way your family is known in the community, these are the fruits. You don’t have to announce them. You don’t have to post about them. They speak for themselves. Motherhood and wifehood aren’t roles you score yourself on. They’re callings. Sacred assignments. They’re revealed in the fruit of your labor and love, in how your children walk, how your husband thrives, and how your family carries its name. And let’s be clear: This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. No shouting. No comparison. Just unshakable grace with eternal results. This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. We’re not raising rebels. We’re restoring order. A Feminine Motherhood trademarked brand 🩷 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic By Feminine Motherhood Motherly Wisdom for the Daughters of Liberty By Feminine Motherhood for the American Christian mom The Covenant Wife by Feminine Motherhood © 2024 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic. And The Covenant Wife Curriculum All rights reserved. This content is protected under Feminine Motherhood ™ for its originality, artistic integrity, and nurturing empowerment. Unauthorized reproduction, distribution, my tone, my delivery or publication is prohibited. #FeminineMotherhood #CovenantMarriage #MarriageWisdom #thecovenantwife #covenantmarriage #femininemotherhood #F#FacebookReelsContest #TheCovenantWifeCurriculum #FeminineMotherhood #AWU #MothersOfLegacy #AltarsNotAesthetics #CovenantWifeWisdom #AmericanWomensUniversity #republicanwomen #TrumpNews #TheRepublic #daughtersofliberty

Hi Ladies, Being a good wife and mother isn’t something you declare or decide for yourself. It’s reflected in the lives you nurture, the love you pour out, and the legacy you protect daily. Your husband sees it in how you carry the home, not just with chores, but with peace, beauty, and trust. Your children may not have the words yet, but one day the adults they become will reveal the truth: your leadership mattered. The clean and sacred home, the tone you set, the discipline you uphold, and the way your family is known in the community, these are the fruits. You don’t have to announce them. You don’t have to post about them. They speak for themselves. Motherhood and wifehood aren’t roles you score yourself on. They’re callings. Sacred assignments. They’re revealed in the fruit of your labor and love, in how your children walk, how your husband thrives, and how your family carries its name. And let’s be clear: This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. No shouting. No comparison. Just unshakable grace with eternal results. This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. ⚔️We’re not raising rebels. We’re restoring order. A Feminine Motherhood trademarked brand 🩷 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic By Feminine Motherhood 🗽 Motherly Wisdom for the Daughters of Liberty By Feminine Motherhood for the American Christian mom 💌 The Covenant Wife by Feminine Motherhood © 2024 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic. And The Covenant Wife Curriculum All rights reserved. This content is protected under Feminine Motherhood ™ for its originality, artistic integrity, and nurturing empowerment. Unauthorized reproduction, distribution, my tone, my delivery or publication is prohibited. #FeminineMotherhood #CovenantMarriage #MarriageWisdom #thecovenantwife #covenantmarriage #femininemotherhood #F#FacebookReelsContest #TheCovenantWifeCurriculum #FeminineMotherhood #AWU #MothersOfLegacy #AltarsNotAesthetics #CovenantWifeWisdom #AmericanWomensUniversity #republicanwomen #TrumpNews #TheRepublic #daughtersofliberty

💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌 Love is not irrelevant. It is FIRST law. It covers a multitude of SINS Motherly wisdom: from the Covenant Wife Curriculum Collection The very first law in the Bible is to love. Not command, not control, love. Before there were churches, rituals, or legal contracts, there was divine love, the root from which all things grow. Study after study, year after year, decade after decade confirms what Scripture already established when two people are in love and committed to one another, their children thrive. Not just survive...thrive 💌academically. 💌emotionally. 💌socially. 💌spiritually. The research is clear and consistent: parents in love shape legacy children. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟 Yet somehow, in this modern fog of “convenience culture,” we’ve been told a lie, that love for our children is mandatory but true love for your husband is optional. That marriage is “just a piece of paper,” or a business arrangement for money, status, or duty. That as long as the kids are loved, it doesn’t matter if the parents love one another. To that, I say: this is not what God said. And we are not kings of France or queens of Scotland, trapped in arranged marriages without consent or connection. It is 2023, and it’s time to stop romanticizing loveless obligation and start honoring what God actually called sacred: a covenant of love. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟 🌸 Being ‘parents in love’ is not effortless, but it is eternal. It takes intention, maintenance, and vulnerability. But the fruit it bears is rich, for you for your children and for the generations yet to come. 🌸 It’s not just about the love you give to your child, it’s also about the love you show to your spouse. Children flourish when they grow up in a home where love isn’t just spoken, it’s lived. 🌸 A 12-year study in Nepal found that children whose parents loved one another stayed in school longer. The love between parents had a direct and measurable effect on their children’s educational outcomes. Love builds legacy. 🌸 Another recent study revealed that as love between parents increases, behavioral problems in children decrease. Not just theoretically, statistically. The more affection and connection between spouses, the calmer, more confident, and more emotionally regulated the child becomes. 🌸 A landmark longitudinal study published in 2009 by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services discovered that the quality of the parents’ marriage had just as much influence on a child’s future mental and physical health as their individual relationship with each parent. Let that settle in. Your love story isn't just yours, it's your child's foundation. 🌸 Research echoes what faith has always whispered: invest in the marriage, and you fortify the family. Love is not a luxury, it’s the architecture of the home. Let this be known: Love is the curriculum. Love is the law. Love is the legacy. If we want strong children, we need strong love between the ones who brought them into the world. This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. A Feminine Motherhood trademarked brand 🩷 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic By Feminine Motherhood 🗽 Motherly Wisdom for the Daughters of Liberty By Feminine Motherhood for the American Christian mom 💌 The Covenant Wife by Feminine Motherhood © 2024 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic. And The Covenant Wife Curriculum All rights reserved. This content is protected under Feminine Motherhood ™ for its originality, artistic integrity, and nurturing empowerment. Unauthorized reproduction, distribution, my tone, my delivery or publication is prohibited. #FeminineMotherhood #CovenantMarriage #MarriageWisdom #thecovenantwife #covenantmarriage #femininemotherhood

💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌 Love is not irrelevant. It is FIRST law. It covers a multitude of SINS Motherly wisdom: from the Covenant Wife Curriculum Collection The very first law in the Bible is to love. Not command, not control, love. Before there were churches, rituals, or legal contracts, there was divine love, the root from which all things grow. Study after study, year after year, decade after decade confirms what Scripture already established when two people are in love and committed to one another, their children thrive. Not just survive...thrive 💌academically. 💌emotionally. 💌socially. 💌spiritually. The research is clear and consistent: parents in love shape legacy children. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟 Yet somehow, in this modern fog of “convenience culture,” we’ve been told a lie, that love for our children is mandatory but true love for your husband is optional. That marriage is “just a piece of paper,” or a business arrangement for money, status, or duty. That as long as the kids are loved, it doesn’t matter if the parents love one another. To that, I say: this is not what God said. And we are not kings of France or queens of Scotland, trapped in arranged marriages without consent or connection. It is 2023, and it’s time to stop romanticizing loveless obligation and start honoring what God actually called sacred: a covenant of love. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟 🌸 Being ‘parents in love’ is not effortless, but it is eternal. It takes intention, maintenance, and vulnerability. But the fruit it bears is rich, for you for your children and for the generations yet to come. 🌸 It’s not just about the love you give to your child, it’s also about the love you show to your spouse. Children flourish when they grow up in a home where love isn’t just spoken, it’s lived. 🌸 A 12-year study in Nepal found that children whose parents loved one another stayed in school longer. The love between parents had a direct and measurable effect on their children’s educational outcomes. Love builds legacy. 🌸 Another recent study revealed that as love between parents increases, behavioral problems in children decrease. Not just theoretically, statistically. The more affection and connection between spouses, the calmer, more confident, and more emotionally regulated the child becomes. 🌸 A landmark longitudinal study published in 2009 by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services discovered that the quality of the parents’ marriage had just as much influence on a child’s future mental and physical health as their individual relationship with each parent. Let that settle in. Your love story isn't just yours, it's your child's foundation. 🌸 Research echoes what faith has always whispered: invest in the marriage, and you fortify the family. Love is not a luxury, it’s the architecture of the home. Let this be known: Love is the curriculum. Love is the law. Love is the legacy. If we want strong children, we need strong love between the ones who brought them into the world. This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. A Feminine Motherhood trademarked brand 🩷 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic By Feminine Motherhood 🗽 Motherly Wisdom for the Daughters of Liberty By Feminine Motherhood for the American Christian mom 💌 The Covenant Wife by Feminine Motherhood © 2024 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic. And The Covenant Wife Curriculum All rights reserved. This content is protected under Feminine Motherhood ™ for its originality, artistic integrity, and nurturing empowerment. Unauthorized reproduction, distribution, my tone, my delivery or publication is prohibited. #FeminineMotherhood #CovenantMarriage #MarriageWisdom #thecovenantwife #covenantmarriage #femininemotherhood

💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌💌 Love is not irrelevant. It is FIRST law. It covers a multitude of SINS Motherly wisdom: from the Covenant Wife Curriculum Collection The very first law in the Bible is to love. Not command, not control, love. Before there were churches, rituals, or legal contracts, there was divine love, the root from which all things grow. Study after study, year after year, decade after decade confirms what Scripture already established when two people are in love and committed to one another, their children thrive. Not just survive...thrive 💌academically. 💌emotionally. 💌socially. 💌spiritually. The research is clear and consistent: parents in love shape legacy children. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟 Yet somehow, in this modern fog of “convenience culture,” we’ve been told a lie, that love for our children is mandatory but true love for your husband is optional. That marriage is “just a piece of paper,” or a business arrangement for money, status, or duty. That as long as the kids are loved, it doesn’t matter if the parents love one another. To that, I say: this is not what God said. And we are not kings of France or queens of Scotland, trapped in arranged marriages without consent or connection. It is 2023, and it’s time to stop romanticizing loveless obligation and start honoring what God actually called sacred: a covenant of love. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟 🌸 Being ‘parents in love’ is not effortless, but it is eternal. It takes intention, maintenance, and vulnerability. But the fruit it bears is rich, for you for your children and for the generations yet to come. 🌸 It’s not just about the love you give to your child, it’s also about the love you show to your spouse. Children flourish when they grow up in a home where love isn’t just spoken, it’s lived. 🌸 A 12-year study in Nepal found that children whose parents loved one another stayed in school longer. The love between parents had a direct and measurable effect on their children’s educational outcomes. Love builds legacy. 🌸 Another recent study revealed that as love between parents increases, behavioral problems in children decrease. Not just theoretically, statistically. The more affection and connection between spouses, the calmer, more confident, and more emotionally regulated the child becomes. 🌸 A landmark longitudinal study published in 2009 by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services discovered that the quality of the parents’ marriage had just as much influence on a child’s future mental and physical health as their individual relationship with each parent. Let that settle in. Your love story isn't just yours, it's your child's foundation. 🌸 Research echoes what faith has always whispered: invest in the marriage, and you fortify the family. Love is not a luxury, it’s the architecture of the home. Let this be known: Love is the curriculum. Love is the law. Love is the legacy. If we want strong children, we need strong love between the ones who brought them into the world. This is Proverbs 31 in rose gold. It’s quiet. It’s sacred. It’s relentless. A Feminine Motherhood trademarked brand 🩷 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic By Feminine Motherhood 🗽 Motherly Wisdom for the Daughters of Liberty By Feminine Motherhood for the American Christian mom 💌 The Covenant Wife by Feminine Motherhood © 2024 The Old Fashioned Hopeless Romantic. And The Covenant Wife Curriculum All rights reserved. This content is protected under Feminine Motherhood ™ for its originality, artistic integrity, and nurturing empowerment. Unauthorized reproduction, distribution, my tone, my delivery or publication is prohibited. #FeminineMotherhood #CovenantMarriage #MarriageWisdom #thecovenantwife #covenantmarriage #femininemotherhood

My Advice to Young Ladies Before you say "Yes" to marriage, think deeply and pray earnestly. It’s better to wait and be sure than to rush in and rush out. Marriage is not just about love it’s about purpose, patience, responsibility, and sacrifice. Don’t let pressure push you into a covenant you are unprepared to keep. Delay is better than regret. A peaceful single life is better than a painful married life. Take your time. Seek God. Choose wisely. #MarriageWisdom #WaitOnGod #YoungLadiesAdvice #RelationshipTruths #ThinkBeforeYouSayYes