No matter how you tell people you love God if you are not a giver you deceive yourself every stinginess and selfishness person does not love God... 1 John 3:17-18 But whoso hath this world's good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him?

My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.