Col 3:5  Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: 
Col 3:6  For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience: 
Col 3:7  In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them. 

I had to look up the word concupiscence, which is fine, I love words and want to know what they mean. This one means sexual desire. We all know what evil means. This is so present in the Church. Just look how many unmarried girls are pregnant. ESP in the church today. Even one is too many. Why aren't our children being taught what sin is? Yes, the LORD loves us, HOWEVER he does NOT want us to continue in sin! To continue in sin grieves the Father, but also the Holy Spirit. Eph 4:30  And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.
Go back to Eph 4, read what sin is. Our children need to be taught.