THIS IS ONE REASON UNHEALTHY OR ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE SO CONFUSING.
It isn't necessarily terrible every second.
There can be laughter.
Good memories.
Apologies.
Affection.
Promises.
Days when everything feels normal again.
And those moments can make someone question whether what happened was really “that bad.”
But good moments don't automatically erase a repeated pattern of:
Intimidation
Control
Threats
Humiliation
Violence
YOU DON'T HAVE TO PRETEND THE GOOD NEVER EXISTED IN ORDER TO TAKE THE HARM SERIOUSLY.
The good memories can be real.
And the harm can be real too.
Both can be true.
Recognizing that can be an important part of seeing the relationship clearly.
#DomesticViolenceAwareness #AbuseAwareness #HealthyRelationships #YouMatter #FoxxFusionMinistries
It isn't necessarily terrible every second.
There can be laughter.
Good memories.
Apologies.
Affection.
Promises.
Days when everything feels normal again.
And those moments can make someone question whether what happened was really “that bad.”
But good moments don't automatically erase a repeated pattern of:
Intimidation
Control
Threats
Humiliation
Violence
YOU DON'T HAVE TO PRETEND THE GOOD NEVER EXISTED IN ORDER TO TAKE THE HARM SERIOUSLY.
The good memories can be real.
And the harm can be real too.
Both can be true.
Recognizing that can be an important part of seeing the relationship clearly.
#DomesticViolenceAwareness #AbuseAwareness #HealthyRelationships #YouMatter #FoxxFusionMinistries
💜 THIS IS ONE REASON UNHEALTHY OR ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE SO CONFUSING.
It isn't necessarily terrible every second.
There can be laughter.
Good memories.
Apologies.
Affection.
Promises.
Days when everything feels normal again.
And those moments can make someone question whether what happened was really “that bad.”
But good moments don't automatically erase a repeated pattern of:
💜 Intimidation
💜 Control
💜 Threats
💜 Humiliation
💜 Violence
❤️🩹 YOU DON'T HAVE TO PRETEND THE GOOD NEVER EXISTED IN ORDER TO TAKE THE HARM SERIOUSLY.
The good memories can be real.
And the harm can be real too.
Both can be true.
Recognizing that can be an important part of seeing the relationship clearly. 💜
#DomesticViolenceAwareness #AbuseAwareness #HealthyRelationships #YouMatter #FoxxFusionMinistries
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