• To Live and Then Live

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    Civilization is like a coin tossed in the air, waiting to fall to the ground.

    On one side, it promises progress. On the other, it crushes millions beneath its weight.
    Most of humanity comes from humble beginnings. For them, the universal basics—food, clothing, shelter—remain unmet. When your energy is consumed entirely by survival, there is little room left for anything else. The motivation to pursue higher callings doesn't even register. You're trapped in a relentless rat race, chasing what should be fundamental, yet experiencing unending failure and dissatisfaction.
    This is the tragedy of modern life: being too busy staying alive to actually live.

    But flip the coin.

    Once basic needs are met, once there is psychological comfort, something shifts. The desire to fulfill why we were created becomes the focus. The question transforms from "How will I survive?" to "What am I here for?"

    This is where civilization fulfills its noblest purpose—as a stepping stone for self-actualization.

    Civilization is an ongoing work in progress—the refining of ideas from generation to generation, adapting knowledge into daily life, forming a progressive paradigm.
    Yet here we are. The majority of people today are stranded in life. They find themselves:

    · Influenced
    · Lived (instead of living)
    · Controlled
    · Manipulated
    · Surrounded by the ideas of others

    So consumed are they by external voices that they lose the ability to focus on their own thoughts, their own ideas, their own lives.

    You were not born to merely survive.
    You were not born to be a vessel for someone else's vision.
    You were born to contribute your unique piece to this ongoing work of civilization.

    First, live—meet your needs, find your footing.
    Then, truly live—discover your purpose, nurture your ideas, and bring them into the world.

    The coin is still in the air. Which side will you choose to land on?

    What idea have you been neglecting? What thought have you buried beneath the noise of survival?
    Today might be the day to let it breathe.
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    To Live and Then Live --- Civilization is like a coin tossed in the air, waiting to fall to the ground. On one side, it promises progress. On the other, it crushes millions beneath its weight. Most of humanity comes from humble beginnings. For them, the universal basics—food, clothing, shelter—remain unmet. When your energy is consumed entirely by survival, there is little room left for anything else. The motivation to pursue higher callings doesn't even register. You're trapped in a relentless rat race, chasing what should be fundamental, yet experiencing unending failure and dissatisfaction. This is the tragedy of modern life: being too busy staying alive to actually live. But flip the coin. Once basic needs are met, once there is psychological comfort, something shifts. The desire to fulfill why we were created becomes the focus. The question transforms from "How will I survive?" to "What am I here for?" This is where civilization fulfills its noblest purpose—as a stepping stone for self-actualization. Civilization is an ongoing work in progress—the refining of ideas from generation to generation, adapting knowledge into daily life, forming a progressive paradigm. Yet here we are. The majority of people today are stranded in life. They find themselves: · Influenced · Lived (instead of living) · Controlled · Manipulated · Surrounded by the ideas of others So consumed are they by external voices that they lose the ability to focus on their own thoughts, their own ideas, their own lives. You were not born to merely survive. You were not born to be a vessel for someone else's vision. You were born to contribute your unique piece to this ongoing work of civilization. First, live—meet your needs, find your footing. Then, truly live—discover your purpose, nurture your ideas, and bring them into the world. The coin is still in the air. Which side will you choose to land on? What idea have you been neglecting? What thought have you buried beneath the noise of survival? Today might be the day to let it breathe. https://a.co/d/0dJqZ3x8https://
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  • TEEN MISSIONARIES GET MARRIED AFTER MEETING ON A MISSION TRIP, 24 HOURS LATER THIER LIVES WERE TAKEN.

    A Young Christian couple who dedicated their lives to missionary work had just stepped into marriage when their story took a devastating turn.
    They met while serving as missionaries in South Africa, both passionate about sharing the Gospel and living out their faith on the mission field.
    Their love grew quickly, rooted in their shared calling and devotion to God.
    Soon, they were engaged-and believed they were stepping into a lifelong journey of ministry together as husband and wife.
    They held a simple courthouse wedding surrounded by close family.
    It was a moment of joy, faith, and new beginnings.
    But just one day after saying "I do," tragedy struck.
    The newlyweds were involved in a fatal car crash, cutting their marriage story down to less than 24 hours.
    One passed away at the scene, and the other later died in the hospital from injuries sustained in the crash.
    What should have been the start of a lifetime together became a heartbreaking reminder of how fragile life truly is.
    Yet even in the sorrow, those who knew them continue to speak of their deep faith and devotion to Jesus.
    Their lives may have been short, but their testimony of love for Christ continues to speak.
    In the midst of grief, many are reflecting on a deeper biblical truth found in Isaiah 57:1: '
    "The righteous perish, and no one takes it to heart; devout people are taken away, while no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil."

    Though their time on earth was brief, their legacy of faith, love for Christ, and missionary devotion continues to speak.
    TEEN MISSIONARIES GET MARRIED AFTER MEETING ON A MISSION TRIP, 24 HOURS LATER THIER LIVES WERE TAKEN. A Young Christian couple who dedicated their lives to missionary work had just stepped into marriage when their story took a devastating turn. They met while serving as missionaries in South Africa, both passionate about sharing the Gospel and living out their faith on the mission field. Their love grew quickly, rooted in their shared calling and devotion to God. Soon, they were engaged-and believed they were stepping into a lifelong journey of ministry together as husband and wife. They held a simple courthouse wedding surrounded by close family. It was a moment of joy, faith, and new beginnings. But just one day after saying "I do," tragedy struck. The newlyweds were involved in a fatal car crash, cutting their marriage story down to less than 24 hours. One passed away at the scene, and the other later died in the hospital from injuries sustained in the crash. What should have been the start of a lifetime together became a heartbreaking reminder of how fragile life truly is. Yet even in the sorrow, those who knew them continue to speak of their deep faith and devotion to Jesus. Their lives may have been short, but their testimony of love for Christ continues to speak. In the midst of grief, many are reflecting on a deeper biblical truth found in Isaiah 57:1: ' "The righteous perish, and no one takes it to heart; devout people are taken away, while no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil." Though their time on earth was brief, their legacy of faith, love for Christ, and missionary devotion continues to speak.
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  • God's Word creates reality
    YOU WANT TO SEE THE SCRIPTURE THAT TALKS ABOUT AMERICA, THE USA!!!! THIS GREAT NATION THAT GOD PROMISED TO EXIST JUST BECAUSE HE SAID IT!!!!!!
    Isaiah 18:1-7 (KJV)
    Woe to the land shadowing with wings, which is beyond the rivers of Ethiopia:
    The Hebrew word is HO not WOE, as in hello to the land shadowing with wings. A symbol of our great bald eagle with it's outstretched wings, that mighty bird that represents our nation. Hello to a land beyond Africa.
    That sendeth ambassadors by the sea, even in vessels of bulrushes upon the waters, saying, Go, ye swift messengers, to a nation scattered and peeled, to a people terrible from their beginning hitherto; a nation meted out and trodden down, whose land the rivers have spoiled!
    America which sends out great warships upon the waters of the world carrying ambassadors of peace and goodwill. Go to this nation, to a people whose land has been sectioned and paved over, to a people terrible from there beginnings, America founded on revolt against tyranny and oppression. These people are mighty even to this day. Their land divided up and meted out into states, trodden down with roads and concrete highways. Their land spoiled with mighty rivers and lakes and streams.
    All ye inhabitants of the world, and dwellers on the earth, see ye, when he lifteth up an ensign on the mountains; and when he bloweth a trumpet, hear ye.
    GOD IS TELLING THE WHOLE WORLD, AND HE MEANS EVERYONE LIVING UPON THE FACE OF THE EARTH. WHEN YOU SEE AMERICA LIFT UP HER FLAG TO THE WORLD, WHEN AMERICA DECLARES WAR YOU HAD BEST BE PAYING ATTENTION AND BE LISTENING TO WHAT AMERICA PROCLAIMS.
    THIS IS AMERICA IN SCRIPTURE. AMERICA IS OF GOD BECAUSE GOD CREATED IT HIMSELF!!! AMERICA IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE AND AS MR. T WOULD SAY, I PITY THE FOUL WHO WOULD TRY AMERICA.
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    God's Word creates reality YOU WANT TO SEE THE SCRIPTURE THAT TALKS ABOUT AMERICA, THE USA!!!! THIS GREAT NATION THAT GOD PROMISED TO EXIST JUST BECAUSE HE SAID IT!!!!!! Isaiah 18:1-7 (KJV) Woe to the land shadowing with wings, which is beyond the rivers of Ethiopia: The Hebrew word is HO not WOE, as in hello to the land shadowing with wings. A symbol of our great bald eagle with it's outstretched wings, that mighty bird that represents our nation. Hello to a land beyond Africa. That sendeth ambassadors by the sea, even in vessels of bulrushes upon the waters, saying, Go, ye swift messengers, to a nation scattered and peeled, to a people terrible from their beginning hitherto; a nation meted out and trodden down, whose land the rivers have spoiled! America which sends out great warships upon the waters of the world carrying ambassadors of peace and goodwill. Go to this nation, to a people whose land has been sectioned and paved over, to a people terrible from there beginnings, America founded on revolt against tyranny and oppression. These people are mighty even to this day. Their land divided up and meted out into states, trodden down with roads and concrete highways. Their land spoiled with mighty rivers and lakes and streams. All ye inhabitants of the world, and dwellers on the earth, see ye, when he lifteth up an ensign on the mountains; and when he bloweth a trumpet, hear ye. GOD IS TELLING THE WHOLE WORLD, AND HE MEANS EVERYONE LIVING UPON THE FACE OF THE EARTH. WHEN YOU SEE AMERICA LIFT UP HER FLAG TO THE WORLD, WHEN AMERICA DECLARES WAR YOU HAD BEST BE PAYING ATTENTION AND BE LISTENING TO WHAT AMERICA PROCLAIMS. THIS IS AMERICA IN SCRIPTURE. AMERICA IS OF GOD BECAUSE GOD CREATED IT HIMSELF!!! AMERICA IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE AND AS MR. T WOULD SAY, I PITY THE FOUL WHO WOULD TRY AMERICA. www.whythewhitemanrules.com
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  • Don't despise small beginnings, God is at work in every faithful step.

    Share this with someone who needs encouragement not to give up.

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  • A MAN DILIGENT IN HIS BUSINESS

    Diligence Can Take You Before Kings

    ANCHOR SCRIPTURE

    Proverbs 22:29 (KJV) “Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men.”

    1. BE DILIGENT

    Diligence means working hard, consistently and responsibly.

    Don't just be gifted—be dependable.

    2. PURSUE EXCELLENCE

    Colossians 3:23 (KJV) “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord...”

    Give your best even when nobody is watching.

    Excellence attracts attention.

    3. BE CONSISTENT

    Success is built through small things done faithfully over time.

    Don't work hard only when people are watching.

    Consistency turns effort into achievement.

    4. DEVELOP YOUR GIFT

    Proverbs 18:16 (KJV) “A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.”

    Your gift may open the door, but diligence helps you stay there.

    Keep learning.
    Keep improving.
    Keep growing.

    5. DON'T DESPISE SMALL BEGINNINGS

    Start where you are.
    Use what you have.
    Do it well.

    Great opportunities often begin with small responsibilities.

    KEY LESSONS

    1. Work hard.
    2. Be consistent.
    3. Pursue excellence.
    4. Develop your skills.
    5. Be reliable.
    6. Stay humble.

    FINAL CHARGE

    Don't wait for a big opportunity before becoming serious.

    Diligence can take you where talent alone cannot.

    Work faithfully.
    Learn continuously.
    Serve excellently.
    Keep improving.

    SHORT PRAYER

    Father, give me the spirit of diligence. Help me to work faithfully, develop my gifts and pursue excellence in all I do. Let my diligence create opportunities to serve and glorify You. In Jesus' name, Amen.

    Prepared by Rev. Frank Fabian Aidoo
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    A MAN DILIGENT IN HIS BUSINESS Diligence Can Take You Before Kings ANCHOR SCRIPTURE Proverbs 22:29 (KJV) “Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men.” 1. BE DILIGENT Diligence means working hard, consistently and responsibly. Don't just be gifted—be dependable. 2. PURSUE EXCELLENCE Colossians 3:23 (KJV) “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord...” Give your best even when nobody is watching. Excellence attracts attention. 3. BE CONSISTENT Success is built through small things done faithfully over time. Don't work hard only when people are watching. Consistency turns effort into achievement. 4. DEVELOP YOUR GIFT Proverbs 18:16 (KJV) “A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.” Your gift may open the door, but diligence helps you stay there. Keep learning. Keep improving. Keep growing. 5. DON'T DESPISE SMALL BEGINNINGS Start where you are. Use what you have. Do it well. Great opportunities often begin with small responsibilities. KEY LESSONS 1. Work hard. 2. Be consistent. 3. Pursue excellence. 4. Develop your skills. 5. Be reliable. 6. Stay humble. FINAL CHARGE Don't wait for a big opportunity before becoming serious. Diligence can take you where talent alone cannot. Work faithfully. Learn continuously. Serve excellently. Keep improving. SHORT PRAYER Father, give me the spirit of diligence. Help me to work faithfully, develop my gifts and pursue excellence in all I do. Let my diligence create opportunities to serve and glorify You. In Jesus' name, Amen. Prepared by Rev. Frank Fabian Aidoo +233544295158
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  • Ridge City Church has come so far from the beginnings when we had to find a different place each Sunday to hold services. To renting a local American Legion hall for a few months, to a six month rental of a worn out old church building which had not been in use for five years. To where the church is now. A building capable of handling the ministry activities and to being accessible within a neighborhood where locals can actually walk to church.

    A building is not the main thing. You don't have to have a building to have church. But, it does make things a lot easier.
    Ridge City Church has come so far from the beginnings when we had to find a different place each Sunday to hold services. To renting a local American Legion hall for a few months, to a six month rental of a worn out old church building which had not been in use for five years. To where the church is now. A building capable of handling the ministry activities and to being accessible within a neighborhood where locals can actually walk to church. A building is not the main thing. You don't have to have a building to have church. But, it does make things a lot easier.
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  • In Christ, your past doesn't have the final word, God is making you new.

    Share this with someone who needs a reminder that God gives new beginnings.

    #2Corinthians517 #NewCreation #NewLifeInChrist #NewBeginning #GodTransforms #GraceOfGod #IdentityInChrist #FaithInChrist #ChristianLiving #Lordsbook
    ✨ In Christ, your past doesn't have the final word, God is making you new. 📲 Share this with someone who needs a reminder that God gives new beginnings. #2Corinthians517 #NewCreation #NewLifeInChrist #NewBeginning #GodTransforms #GraceOfGod #IdentityInChrist #FaithInChrist #ChristianLiving #Lordsbook
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  • THURSDAY 20TH AUGUST 2026

    Topic: You Are Not Behind

    Bible Reference

    “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” Zechariah 4:10 (NLT)

    A Short Story

    Samuel was twenty seven, and he had started wondering whether he was already too late.

    Some of his friends had built successful businesses. Others had secured good jobs, bought cars, travelled to different countries, or started families. Whenever he opened social media, it seemed as though everyone was moving forward except him.

    Samuel had a small business that was barely growing. He was also learning a new skill, but the progress felt painfully slow.

    One afternoon, he sat with a friend and said, “I think I have wasted too much time. Maybe I should have achieved more by now.”

    His friend looked at him and asked, “Who told you that your life must follow their timetable?”

    Samuel became quiet.

    He realized that most of his frustration was not coming from his actual situation. It was coming from constantly comparing his journey with other people's journeys.

    That evening, he returned home and looked at the small notebook where he had written his goals months earlier. He noticed something he had forgotten.

    He had actually made progress.

    It was not dramatic. It was not something he could proudly display on social media. But he had learned new skills, become more disciplined, grown spiritually, and taken steps he had once been afraid to take.

    For the first time in a long while, Samuel thanked God for the little he had.

    He decided that instead of spending his energy asking why he was not where someone else was, he would focus on becoming faithful with where God had placed him.

    Today's Message

    Comparison can make you despise your own journey.

    You look at someone else's finished product and compare it with your beginning. You see their achievement but do not see the years of preparation, sacrifice, failure, and waiting behind it.

    God does not measure your life by another person's timeline.

    The Bible tells us not to despise small beginnings. Something may look small today and still become significant tomorrow.

    Do not be ashamed of starting small. Do not be discouraged because your progress is not yet visible to everyone.

    Your responsibility is to be faithful with what God has placed in your hands today.

    You are not behind simply because someone else arrived before you.

    Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep praying. Keep working. Keep trusting God.

    Your journey is your journey.

    What To Do Today

    1. Stop comparing your progress with what you see on social media.

    2. Write down three areas where you have genuinely grown.

    3. Identify one small step you can take toward your goal today.

    4. Thank God for where you are while trusting Him for where you are going.

    Prayer

    Lord, deliver me from the pressure of comparison. Help me to appreciate my journey and remain faithful in small beginnings. Give me patience, discipline, and confidence to keep moving forward with You. In Jesus' name, Amen.

    Daily Challenge

    Write down three things you have accomplished or improved in the past year, no matter how small they may seem. Thank God for each one.

    Anthony Ijere
    Christian Author and Revivalist

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    THURSDAY 20TH AUGUST 2026 Topic: You Are Not Behind Bible Reference “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” Zechariah 4:10 (NLT) A Short Story Samuel was twenty seven, and he had started wondering whether he was already too late. Some of his friends had built successful businesses. Others had secured good jobs, bought cars, travelled to different countries, or started families. Whenever he opened social media, it seemed as though everyone was moving forward except him. Samuel had a small business that was barely growing. He was also learning a new skill, but the progress felt painfully slow. One afternoon, he sat with a friend and said, “I think I have wasted too much time. Maybe I should have achieved more by now.” His friend looked at him and asked, “Who told you that your life must follow their timetable?” Samuel became quiet. He realized that most of his frustration was not coming from his actual situation. It was coming from constantly comparing his journey with other people's journeys. That evening, he returned home and looked at the small notebook where he had written his goals months earlier. He noticed something he had forgotten. He had actually made progress. It was not dramatic. It was not something he could proudly display on social media. But he had learned new skills, become more disciplined, grown spiritually, and taken steps he had once been afraid to take. For the first time in a long while, Samuel thanked God for the little he had. He decided that instead of spending his energy asking why he was not where someone else was, he would focus on becoming faithful with where God had placed him. Today's Message Comparison can make you despise your own journey. You look at someone else's finished product and compare it with your beginning. You see their achievement but do not see the years of preparation, sacrifice, failure, and waiting behind it. God does not measure your life by another person's timeline. The Bible tells us not to despise small beginnings. Something may look small today and still become significant tomorrow. Do not be ashamed of starting small. Do not be discouraged because your progress is not yet visible to everyone. Your responsibility is to be faithful with what God has placed in your hands today. You are not behind simply because someone else arrived before you. Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep praying. Keep working. Keep trusting God. Your journey is your journey. What To Do Today 1. Stop comparing your progress with what you see on social media. 2. Write down three areas where you have genuinely grown. 3. Identify one small step you can take toward your goal today. 4. Thank God for where you are while trusting Him for where you are going. Prayer Lord, deliver me from the pressure of comparison. Help me to appreciate my journey and remain faithful in small beginnings. Give me patience, discipline, and confidence to keep moving forward with You. In Jesus' name, Amen. Daily Challenge Write down three things you have accomplished or improved in the past year, no matter how small they may seem. Thank God for each one. ©️ Anthony Ijere Christian Author and Revivalist https://chat.whatsapp.com/BDs9qaNMQumKTicv7uU7SJ?s=cl&p=a&mlu=0&ilr=0 https://t.me/anthonyijere
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  • Mystical Gardens Tale

    The Empty Chair

    Mary had friends, technically she wasn't alone. That was what she always told herself. She had people she could call. People who would answer a message. People she could talk to about the weather, the latest news, or something funny that had happened during the day. What she didn't have was someone to do things with.

    She wasn't completely alone, but there was a difference between having people she could talk to and having a companion to spend time with. Mary knew there was a difference. She knew it every evening when she came home. She knew it when she made dinner and automatically put two plates on the counter before realizing there was only one person eating.

    She knew it when something funny happened on television and she turned toward the other side of the couch to share the joke, only to find an empty cushion. She knew it when she poured herself a glass of tea and, without thinking, reached for another glass. Then stopped. There was no one to pour it for.

    One evening, Mary sat on the couch with her dinner untouched beside her. The television was playing, but she wasn't watching it. Her eyes kept drifting toward the empty chair across the room. It wasn't anything special. Just an old chair with a cushion that had lost some of its shape, but tonight, it seemed to be extra empty.

    Mary stared at it for a long time. Then she whispered, “I wish somebody was here.”

    The words surprised her. She had spent years teaching herself not to say things like that. Whenever she admitted she was lonely, someone would remind her that she already had friends. Whenever she said she wanted companionship, someone would tell her she needed to learn to be happy alone. Whenever she complained about having no one to do things with, someone would say, “You just have to get out there.”

    Mary knew they meant well, but sometimes she wanted more than advice. She wanted someone to sit beside her. Someone to go places with. Someone to call and say, “Want to grab a coffee?” Someone who would watch a terrible movie with her and laugh at how terrible it was. Someone who would notice when she was quiet. Someone who didn't have to be invited because they were already there.

    Mary leaned back against the couch. “I don't want to be needy,” she whispered. The room offered no answer. The loneliness tightened around her heart. The loneliness engulfed her and tears formed in her eyes.

    Mary closed her eyes, curled into a fetal ball, and allowed herself to cry. When she opened them again, she wasn't in her living room. She was sitting in a beautiful garden beneath a giant tree. The mystical garden stretched around her in the soft evening light. Flowers moved gently in a breeze she couldn't feel. Somewhere nearby, water trickled over smooth stones.

    Mary didn't know how she had gotten there, but she wasn't frightened. She had been to this garden before. Some people claimed it was magical. She looked up at the giant tree. “You know why I'm here, don't you?”

    The leaves rustled. Mary smiled sadly. “I'm so lonely.” The tree remained silent.

    Mary pulled her knees toward herself. “I know what everyone says. I know I do have people in my life. I do have friends. I know I should be grateful. I really am grateful.” She swallowed. “But I want someone...” The words finally came out. “I want someone to share my life with.”

    A breeze moved through the branches. Mary looked up. “Can you help me?” The tree did not answer.

    Mary waited. “Can you find someone for me?” Still nothing. Her smile disappeared. “It's silly, but I thought that since I just appeared here, maybe you had some magic that could help me.”

    The branches swayed gently. Mary looked away. “Apparently not.” She stood and began walking through the garden. At first, she noticed all the companionship around her.

    She saw two birds that sat together on a branch. A pair of rabbits chased one another through the flowers. A butterfly rested on another butterfly's wings. Even the bees seemed to have somewhere to go and someone waiting for them.

    Mary stopped beside the pond. “Even the animals have someone.” Her voice cracked. “And I don't.”

    She sat beside the water. For a long time, she didn't notice anything different. Then something strange began. The garden seemed to change.

    Mary watched as a bee landed on a flower. The flower gave it the nectar that it searched for. A bird flew down to the pond where it found a worm in the soft soil and water to quench is thirst. A fruit fell from one of the branches and disappeared into the soil where the seed would grow.

    Mary watched quietly. She finally began to understand. The garden wasn't showing her perfect lives. This wasn't exactly the companionship she longed for. What it was showing her was a different kind of companionship. It showed her the connections that are made in all life. Little ones. Simple ones. Necessary ones.

    Then its leaves shimmered and Mary heard a whisper in her heart. "You are not wrong for wanting companionship.'' Mary's eyes filled with tears. People had told her it was good to be independent. They had told her to enjoy her own company. They had told her she didn't need anyone, but nobody had told her that wanting someone beside her wasn't a weakness.

    Mary rested her hand against the tree. “I don't want someone to rescue me.” The leaves rustled. “I just don't want to do everything alone. I just need a friend to do things with.”

    The tree remained silent, but somehow Mary understood. There was a difference between being incomplete and being lonely. She could be whole and still want someone to share some of the things in her life with. She could be grateful and still wish for a little companionship. She could love herself and still want someone sitting in the empty chair.

    Mary wiped her eyes. “Then why can't you find someone for me?” The tree's branches slowly moved toward the ground. One small branch pointed toward the garden gate. Mary frowned. “You want me to leave?” At first she was hurt, but then she understood.

    The garden couldn't choose another person's heart. It couldn't manufacture friendship. It couldn't make someone walk into her life. It couldn't promise that tomorrow she would meet the person she'd been waiting for. But it could give her somewhere to come back to when the loneliness became too heavy.

    It could remind her that loneliness wasn't proof that she was forgotten. Companionship had many different forms. Perhaps most importantly, it reminded her not to close her heart simply because she had been disappointed before.

    Mary stood. The tree's leaves shimmered.
    “I guess I just stopped trying.” She looked toward the garden gate. “Because every time I tried, I got hurt.”

    The garden grew very still. Mary took a deep breath. “Maybe I decided it was easier to do things alone, preferring to be lonely than to be hurt. That's not the same thing as being okay, is it?”

    The tree answered with a gentle shower of golden leaves. Mary laughed through her tears. “No,” she whispered. “It isn't.”

    When Mary returned home, the television was still playing. The empty chair was still there. Nothing about her house had changed. But Mary had.

    She looked at the chair. For years, she had thought the empty chair was proof that nobody was coming, no one wanted to be with her. Tonight, she saw it differently. It was simply an empty chair waiting to be filled.

    The next morning, Mary picked up her phone. She stared at the screen for several minutes. If she wanted a friend, she should make an effort. There was a woman she occasionally talked to. They had always talked easily, but Mary had never asked her to do anything outside their usual conversations.

    Her finger hovered over the call button.
    Then she pressed it. “Hi,” Mary said when the woman answered. “I was wondering…”
    She almost stopped. She fears that the woman would be too busy. That she would think Mary was being strange. But Mary continued. “Would you like to have coffee with me sometime?”

    There was a pause. Then came the answer. “I'd love to.”

    Mary smiled. It wasn't a miracle. It wasn't the end of her loneliness. It wasn't the person she had dreamed about finding for a relationship. It was simply coffee and the beginning of a new friendship.

    Sometimes the beginnings of any kind of relationship are very small. Sometimes they sound like: Would you like to come with me? Would you want to watch a movie? Do you want to get coffee?
    Would you like to sit here?

    Mary still visited the garden. She still had lonely evenings. There were still nights when she looked at the empty chair and wished someone were sitting in it, but now she wouldn't allow the loneliness to tightened around her heart. She knew she could ask for simple companionship when she felt lonely and she could always come here for comfort and peace.

    Wanting someone beside you does not make you weak. Being lonely does not mean you are forgotten. An empty chair is not a threat that no one will ever come. Sometimes… It is simply a chair waiting for a story that hasn't been written yet.

    Seed from the Garden
    “God setteth the solitary in families.” — Psalm 68:6
    Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Two people are better than one because they can help each other up.

    God sees the lonely places we don't always know how to explain. He doesn't shame us for wanting companionship. While He may not answer that longing in the way or timing we expect, we can trust that our loneliness does not mean we have been forgotten. Sometimes the first step isn't finding the person we've been waiting for. Sometimes it's simply finding the courage to open the door to allow people in.

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    🌿 Mystical Gardens Tale 🌿 🪑 The Empty Chair Mary had friends, technically she wasn't alone. That was what she always told herself. She had people she could call. People who would answer a message. People she could talk to about the weather, the latest news, or something funny that had happened during the day. What she didn't have was someone to do things with. She wasn't completely alone, but there was a difference between having people she could talk to and having a companion to spend time with. Mary knew there was a difference. She knew it every evening when she came home. She knew it when she made dinner and automatically put two plates on the counter before realizing there was only one person eating. She knew it when something funny happened on television and she turned toward the other side of the couch to share the joke, only to find an empty cushion. She knew it when she poured herself a glass of tea and, without thinking, reached for another glass. Then stopped. There was no one to pour it for. One evening, Mary sat on the couch with her dinner untouched beside her. The television was playing, but she wasn't watching it. Her eyes kept drifting toward the empty chair across the room. It wasn't anything special. Just an old chair with a cushion that had lost some of its shape, but tonight, it seemed to be extra empty. Mary stared at it for a long time. Then she whispered, “I wish somebody was here.” The words surprised her. She had spent years teaching herself not to say things like that. Whenever she admitted she was lonely, someone would remind her that she already had friends. Whenever she said she wanted companionship, someone would tell her she needed to learn to be happy alone. Whenever she complained about having no one to do things with, someone would say, “You just have to get out there.” Mary knew they meant well, but sometimes she wanted more than advice. She wanted someone to sit beside her. Someone to go places with. Someone to call and say, “Want to grab a coffee?” Someone who would watch a terrible movie with her and laugh at how terrible it was. Someone who would notice when she was quiet. Someone who didn't have to be invited because they were already there. Mary leaned back against the couch. “I don't want to be needy,” she whispered. The room offered no answer. The loneliness tightened around her heart. The loneliness engulfed her and tears formed in her eyes. Mary closed her eyes, curled into a fetal ball, and allowed herself to cry. When she opened them again, she wasn't in her living room. She was sitting in a beautiful garden beneath a giant tree. The mystical garden stretched around her in the soft evening light. Flowers moved gently in a breeze she couldn't feel. Somewhere nearby, water trickled over smooth stones. Mary didn't know how she had gotten there, but she wasn't frightened. She had been to this garden before. Some people claimed it was magical. She looked up at the giant tree. “You know why I'm here, don't you?” The leaves rustled. Mary smiled sadly. “I'm so lonely.” The tree remained silent. Mary pulled her knees toward herself. “I know what everyone says. I know I do have people in my life. I do have friends. I know I should be grateful. I really am grateful.” She swallowed. “But I want someone...” The words finally came out. “I want someone to share my life with.” A breeze moved through the branches. Mary looked up. “Can you help me?” The tree did not answer. Mary waited. “Can you find someone for me?” Still nothing. Her smile disappeared. “It's silly, but I thought that since I just appeared here, maybe you had some magic that could help me.” The branches swayed gently. Mary looked away. “Apparently not.” She stood and began walking through the garden. At first, she noticed all the companionship around her. She saw two birds that sat together on a branch. A pair of rabbits chased one another through the flowers. A butterfly rested on another butterfly's wings. Even the bees seemed to have somewhere to go and someone waiting for them. Mary stopped beside the pond. “Even the animals have someone.” Her voice cracked. “And I don't.” She sat beside the water. For a long time, she didn't notice anything different. Then something strange began. The garden seemed to change. Mary watched as a bee landed on a flower. The flower gave it the nectar that it searched for. A bird flew down to the pond where it found a worm in the soft soil and water to quench is thirst. A fruit fell from one of the branches and disappeared into the soil where the seed would grow. Mary watched quietly. She finally began to understand. The garden wasn't showing her perfect lives. This wasn't exactly the companionship she longed for. What it was showing her was a different kind of companionship. It showed her the connections that are made in all life. Little ones. Simple ones. Necessary ones. Then its leaves shimmered and Mary heard a whisper in her heart. "You are not wrong for wanting companionship.'' Mary's eyes filled with tears. People had told her it was good to be independent. They had told her to enjoy her own company. They had told her she didn't need anyone, but nobody had told her that wanting someone beside her wasn't a weakness. Mary rested her hand against the tree. “I don't want someone to rescue me.” The leaves rustled. “I just don't want to do everything alone. I just need a friend to do things with.” The tree remained silent, but somehow Mary understood. There was a difference between being incomplete and being lonely. She could be whole and still want someone to share some of the things in her life with. She could be grateful and still wish for a little companionship. She could love herself and still want someone sitting in the empty chair. Mary wiped her eyes. “Then why can't you find someone for me?” The tree's branches slowly moved toward the ground. One small branch pointed toward the garden gate. Mary frowned. “You want me to leave?” At first she was hurt, but then she understood. The garden couldn't choose another person's heart. It couldn't manufacture friendship. It couldn't make someone walk into her life. It couldn't promise that tomorrow she would meet the person she'd been waiting for. But it could give her somewhere to come back to when the loneliness became too heavy. It could remind her that loneliness wasn't proof that she was forgotten. Companionship had many different forms. Perhaps most importantly, it reminded her not to close her heart simply because she had been disappointed before. Mary stood. The tree's leaves shimmered. “I guess I just stopped trying.” She looked toward the garden gate. “Because every time I tried, I got hurt.” The garden grew very still. Mary took a deep breath. “Maybe I decided it was easier to do things alone, preferring to be lonely than to be hurt. That's not the same thing as being okay, is it?” The tree answered with a gentle shower of golden leaves. Mary laughed through her tears. “No,” she whispered. “It isn't.” When Mary returned home, the television was still playing. The empty chair was still there. Nothing about her house had changed. But Mary had. She looked at the chair. For years, she had thought the empty chair was proof that nobody was coming, no one wanted to be with her. Tonight, she saw it differently. It was simply an empty chair waiting to be filled. The next morning, Mary picked up her phone. She stared at the screen for several minutes. If she wanted a friend, she should make an effort. There was a woman she occasionally talked to. They had always talked easily, but Mary had never asked her to do anything outside their usual conversations. Her finger hovered over the call button. Then she pressed it. “Hi,” Mary said when the woman answered. “I was wondering…” She almost stopped. She fears that the woman would be too busy. That she would think Mary was being strange. But Mary continued. “Would you like to have coffee with me sometime?” There was a pause. Then came the answer. “I'd love to.” Mary smiled. It wasn't a miracle. It wasn't the end of her loneliness. It wasn't the person she had dreamed about finding for a relationship. It was simply coffee and the beginning of a new friendship. Sometimes the beginnings of any kind of relationship are very small. Sometimes they sound like: Would you like to come with me? Would you want to watch a movie? Do you want to get coffee? Would you like to sit here? Mary still visited the garden. She still had lonely evenings. There were still nights when she looked at the empty chair and wished someone were sitting in it, but now she wouldn't allow the loneliness to tightened around her heart. She knew she could ask for simple companionship when she felt lonely and she could always come here for comfort and peace. Wanting someone beside you does not make you weak. Being lonely does not mean you are forgotten. An empty chair is not a threat that no one will ever come. Sometimes… It is simply a chair waiting for a story that hasn't been written yet. Seed from the Garden “God setteth the solitary in families.” — Psalm 68:6 Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Two people are better than one because they can help each other up. God sees the lonely places we don't always know how to explain. He doesn't shame us for wanting companionship. While He may not answer that longing in the way or timing we expect, we can trust that our loneliness does not mean we have been forgotten. Sometimes the first step isn't finding the person we've been waiting for. Sometimes it's simply finding the courage to open the door to allow people in. #christianwriter #christianfiction #christianfantasy #stacyfrantz #MysticalGardens
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